I'm Very Tempted Too

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jubilee
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I'm Very Tempted Too

Post by jubilee »

Following on from an earlier poster's questions about hiring escorts I'd value your thoughts and comments on my own dilemma.
I'm 29 and thinking of booking a porn star who is available for escorting work this Friday but I can't get to London as I don't drive and I find it difficult to use public transport due to the fact I'm currently waiting for a knee replacement, so she'd have to visit me in the South East. I thought I'd treat myself to a couple of hours with this young lady to take my mind off the forthcoming operation. I've just emailed the agency asking if an outcall is possible and they've repiled saying it is and want to know my location and the duration of the booking.
Now, while I'm very tempted to listen to my heart telling me to go for it and enjoy myself, I've got nothing to loose and everything to win my head's telling me this is the first time I've done anything like this and I may regret it later and the fee (?550 for two hours plus as yet unknown travel costs) would leave me short for a few months. I really am torn: Do I step outside my comfort zone and try something new or do I play it safe and stick to what I know?
Gentlemen (and Ladies) your comments on this topic would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Jonone
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Re: I'm Very Tempted Too

Post by Jonone »

From what you say your mind is preoccupied with the op and that's entirely understandable, but it might be better to revisit this scenario when the op and your anxiety are no longer a 'backstory' and something to factor into your judgement.
johnsix
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Re: I'm Very Tempted Too

Post by johnsix »

I agree with Jonone, Get the distractions out of the way and get yourself fit.
It will give you something to look forward to.
I'm sort of in a similar dilemma in that I haven't had a sex life for a number of years and am considering some professional help to get my confidence back.
It is a daunting step.
Pick the right person and pick the right time, Good luck.
JonnyHungwell
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Re: I'm Very Tempted Too

Post by JonnyHungwell »

Don't waste your money. If you can comfortably afford it, maybe - but putting yourself into poverty deliberately, on account of a shag, is not to be recommended.
colin
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Re: I'm Very Tempted Too

Post by colin »

i would have to agree with jonone.leave it until after the op,as you are in doubt already,i would get the op off your mind first then reassess your situation.

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mrmcfister
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Re: I'm Very Tempted Too

Post by mrmcfister »

Mate there are loads of girls out there busting for a shag..spend a few hours on one of the free contact sites and take someone out for meal and then see what happens...paying 500 is ridiculous IMHO..google contact sites uk and you'll be halfway there.
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