misunderstanding

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Guy

misunderstanding

Post by Guy »

Sorry there appears to be a slight misunderstanding. Tammy is a good friend of mine. She told me that she has done some porn films, but I don?t believe her. Anyway I hope she hasn?t and this is the only I can get the poof I need. I don?t need to stalk her, because I already know where she lives. She won?t tell me the names of the films or the name of the company. (That?s all the information I need)
alec

Re: misunderstanding

Post by alec »

Guy wrote:
>
> Sorry there appears to be a slight misunderstanding. Tammy is
> a good friend of mine.

No offence, but anyone can say that.

> She told me that she has done some
> porn films, but I don?t believe her. Anyway I hope she hasn?t
> and this is the only I can get the poof I need. I don?t need
> to stalk her, because I already know where she lives.

Again anyone can say that. This is the nature of the internet. You'll just have to accept it.

If she's not on the database, we don't know in any case.
woodgnome

Re: misunderstanding

Post by woodgnome »

your personal circumstances are irrelevant. we don't know you from adam and have no way of confirming the truth of anything you may tell us about yourself, or your relationship with the lady concerned.

when someone posts the name of a individual to this forum, in the context that you did, our primary concern is with the right to privacy of that named individual. she may be perfectly happy to have her name posted here, or she may find it very distressing. we are not in a position to know the full facts one way or the other but will always assume the latter.

sections 2.3.1 & 2.3.2 in the faq are clear enough on this point. the removal of your post is not personal - it's a matter of principle.
Michelle

Re: misunderstanding

Post by Michelle »

Guy,

In my opinion your query has a double meaning.

You want to find out from here if she has done adult work because in your own words "you hope she has not".

Whatever the circumstances are with you and the young lady in question the truth is that if she has done this type of work it has got absoluely nothing to do with you, And the fact that you are now on a mission to find the evidence is somewhat disturbing.

Have you ever heard of the phrase " FREEDOM OF CHOICE".

With so called friends like you who needs enemies.

Michelle.
Guy

Re: misunderstanding

Post by Guy »

She did it because of the money, but I would have willing give her money. I offered so many times, and I have given her a lot of money before. So you cant judge me, because you don?t know us, and even if I don?t find out, I don?t really care.

The reason so that I want to know is so that if anyone I know sees the film, I can be repaired that?s all. I really care about her.
marge proops

Re: misunderstanding

Post by marge proops »

But she doesn't seem to care enough about you to confide this in you.
Either that, or she needs you just to take her at face value: in which case, respect her wishes and let it lie..
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