maybe leaving the porn industry is a bit hasty. You might consider working for some directors who make porn for women viewers. You seem like a thoroughly nice girl, by that I mean, you're a girlfriend sort of girl, and perhaps if you were to meet some guy(s) in the industry with special chemistry with whom you could use to make porn that appeals to women. Women need more humour and a bit of warmth in their porn viewing. Too many girl performers just can't deliver this convincingly. Most guys can't either. You might try contacting Anna Span.
If not, good luck in your private life.