Cathy Barry on the Trishia show

[jj]

Not so much double standards as a complete, cynical set-up.
Compare and contrast Jerry Springer, etc. etc.

[magoo]

Terry talking about selling her knickers and stuff.

I am suprised nobody mentioned it as usually there are loads of Theresa related posts. She must be about 35 by now is she? I am not knocking her by the way but she must be getting on a bit age wise.

[Caractacus]

. . . . self-promotion. How unusual.

[max softcore]

You guys must've watched a totally different program to me and about 30 others in the canteen at work!

The audience were most definitely laughing AT her and she came accross as being a very insecure, vulnerable and unsure person.

It's blatantly apparent that she's a pretty girl, with a shortage of self-esteem and worth, who's been "guided" down the wrong path by the people in the business. She even admitted that "sometimes" she doesnt like it and feels repulsed by pics of herself!!

[Officer Dibble]

"Insecure?" "Vulnerable?" "Shortage of self esteem?" This canteen wouldn't perchance be in a poncy public sector establishment would it? Because in a working environment where they do real manual graft the comments would range from "Wheyhey!" and "Come 'n' smoke my beef baby!" to "Get yer tits out for the lads, get yer tits out for lads, etc, etc...."

Officer Dibble.

[buttsie]

So which wig were you wearing whilst watching Cathy strut her stuff....not that brunette beehive I hope lol

cheers
B...OZ

[buttsie]

You're entitled to you're assessment wether right or wrong

As to the point about she didn't like some aspects of her work
welcome to the real world.I worked in finance for 16 years and being a respectable industry i can say quite categorically there were occasions when management were in my sights for their unethical morally bankrupt activities.

You say she appeared vunerable,low self esteem etc.


Its a well known fact that public speaking scares most people to death and hence avoid it at all costs.Add in the social stigma attached to porn,no wonder she 'might'have appeared a little unsure in the beggining.Not knowing how the audience would react...how Trisha would treat her etc.

The last word should come from Cathy as she's the only one who really knew how she felt.

Judging others but only when you are prepared to be judged yourself....hiding behind your no addy...very brave.


cheers
B...OZ

[cathy]

i have got loads of self asteem as for worth well my tits are worth quite a bit (lol)
all i can say is YOU GET ON A CHAIR IN FRONT OF MILLIONS OF PEOPLE AND TALK ABOUT SEX AND SEE IF YOU WOULD LOOK A BIT NERVOUS!!!!!!!!!!! as it happens i really enjoyed the show i love my job and i have been asked to be on the show more often which i have accepted .im not sad ok you all may know a bit more about me now ,but what you all must remember whether you are a porn star or a newsreader if you are in the public eye some people will pick up on your every word and read somthing into it ....
so in basic terms no im not unhappy
i love having sex on camera
no i have not gone down the wrong road i have gone down the road i have chosen and if i had my time again it would be exactly the same
and as for my future bring on more sex
cathy xxxxxxxxxxx

[Meglos]

See, as I said in the original message, an honest girl. You have a mini fanbase in Nyetimber, West Sussex Cathy. Bollocks to the people who want to "read in between the lines". We think you are tip-top and we loved your accent. Long live honest, stunning women.

Meglos and the Nyetimber collective

[magoo]

Exactly. Anyone would be nervous appearing before an audience. And as for sometimes not liking the photos or films thats natural. I have heard many a top Hollywood star say they hate seeing themselves on screen. I cringe if I hear my voice on tape. Its normal. I thought you came across well.

But on the subject of your boobs Cathy. Did you used to model before your boob job? I cant remember seeing any photos from then.