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Re: WHO IS SAYING SHIT ABOUT ME AND WHY??
Posted: Sat Mar 06, 2010 6:45 pm
by Matt P
Aww don't me hurt or upset by unfounded negativity. There are people that are out there to waste others time unfortunately & the "you're fucking hot thing" normally indicates it's a pic collector or someone not serrious, I find those that make good porn are a bit more sterile & more focused on what they actually want to use you in.
I've suffered from bad mouthing & well it's just sad to be honest & says more about those behind it then those they target.
I really hope our paths cross or I get to work with you maybe(sorry I'm not sure of your levels) as you seem a nice person.
Re: WHO IS SAYING SHIT ABOUT ME AND WHY??
Posted: Sat Mar 06, 2010 7:01 pm
by nikonman
Pho3nix,
Looking at your post I don't think that you will find that anyone is running you down.
It will probably be that the people who have contacted you and offered you work are just timewasters. It happens all the time has i expect other readers of this forum will tell you.
Hopefully you have not travelled to any shoots and then been let down.
Unfortunately it gives people who try their best to be genuine photographers a bad name.
Re: WHO IS SAYING SHIT ABOUT ME AND WHY??
Posted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 8:30 pm
by Samara
its unfortunate that this happens to anyone of us ... but it does. I hope you find out who so it can be ironed out. until then keep your head up, get those who have worked with you & provide references to do so.
the politics & game playing of people whether it be tactical, for their own good, or the many other reasons is bullshit. keep your head up & rise above it xx
Re: WHO IS SAYING SHIT ABOUT ME AND WHY??
Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 6:02 pm
by Pho3nix
Thanks guys for all the comments, I do feel a lot better =o)
videokim: Thanks hun =o)
HarveyJay: Its not that someone has not got back to me its the fact they were going like "HI excuse my language but you are fucking beautiful great tits aswellxx were you from?"
AND
"your welcome hun we will have to definately sort something hun could i be cheeky and ask you for a few more pic pleasexxx
and here is a link to my site ******************** tell me what think
**** - He also knows where I'm from!!!!
He posts on here too, i'm not naming him on here as its not allowed!! but now he has ignored all emails when it comes to booking me - just seems very strange!!!!
Brainsinmedick: The reason for the * was the fact I had copied the post from my FB profile!! and not changed it on here LOL
Matt P: I work to all levels exept SCAT, Needle Play and Extreme tourture!
Thanks for the nice comment hun =o) XX - The person in question posts on here!! and does have a site! which makes it even more frustrating hun xx
nikonman: He didn't seem to be a timewaster as I have checked him out hun, but does seem strange as to why he is ignoring me now!!
Samara: Thanks hun =o) I do feel a lot better now xx Hope you are keeping fine xx
Re: WHO IS SAYING SHIT ABOUT ME AND WHY??
Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 4:34 am
by tori-b
trust me ive had that happen more times than i care to remember its nothing personal its just theres a lot of idiots out there unfortunately its the territory i suppose so i would take anything personally hun its just the nature of the beast!
all the best
tori
Re: WHO IS SAYING SHIT ABOUT ME AND WHY??
Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 5:22 am
by Ron T. Storm
No one is slagging you off. You are paranoid. Don't worry 90% of people in this business are paranoid.
Just have a glass of wine and chill out,
Ron.
Re: WHO IS SAYING SHIT ABOUT ME AND WHY??
Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 6:23 am
by one eyed jack
it doesnt matter what shit is being said about you, if any, cos none of it will make a difference to you getting work....Unless you are a serial no show.
Plus I have never heard an idle word said against you. I beleive we met a few times at the UKAP parties right? You were wearing angel wings at one of them