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Passionate he may be - but maybe he should save that passion for his private appeals to the producers. Public displays of throwing the toys outta the pram are not going to do him any favours whatsoever and if the tongue in cheek presentation of what (as you readily accept) is the truth, then I make no apologies.

The sooner he wises up the better. He's not doing anybody any harm but himself but, if he's intent on keeping on, keeping on... fair play.

There are a fair few good guys(meaning men) that I've met that have always been great with advice etc & not made me feel the lesser &
the ill treatment isn't an exclusive trait of the men so that's not what I'm saying.

omg matt ... you sound like me ... this worry me lol ... because I make as many enermies as friends hun ... but hey Im happy ... so go for it ... sometime their greater happiness in not being played, standing up for yourself than the things you think will give you happiness ... fair play

If Matt thinks I've insulted him he really hasn't been insulted before in his life, and then to make out I'm some sort of gang member, lol. I think it was a compliment to even suggest he might acquire a body if he did workout. It's not just my view that guys should work on their appearance, instead of merely relying on getting a hardon. Matt really has bought into all this spiel about how unusual it as for a guy to get hard on a porn shoot.
The definition of being an amateur at anything is not having or needing a cultivated skill to carry out a job. Having a good body is a skill since it involves cultivation over a lengthy period of time, Most of the big name american companies won't employ a guy who isn't gym trained.
It actually gives the porn industry a bad name, that you have these guys who just rolled out of bed into the fannies of girls who are not their equal. It makes people believe all too easily that women in porn are being exploited by men. Perhaps if guys showed a little more professionalism the view of the porn industry might not be so negative.

I have to agree with Dani.

I'm a mature bbw and some comments (when you do get replys to emails) are not very nice. But some are ok- you're not what we're looking for but good luck elsewhere etc.

There is space for everyone out there but that space is limited- unless you're Brad Pitt!!!

It's always a plus if you can have a laugh while you're working with someone (whatever you are doing in life) and if you have a choice when you're picking someone that will come into it.

You could help yourself alot if you lose the attitude on forums, but the damage may have already been done babe.

Three types of studs can work in this game and make good porn.

Gym Fit guys - look the equal of the girls, used in most glossy porn, but need to look as though they want to be there.

Character Guys - Jim Slip.

Gym Fit AND Character - Marino

What new guys need to understand is that NO ONE gets started as a hired stud unless they are gym fit*. Character guys tend to have been gym fit once upon a time, or moved over from production side.

FWIW my personal hates are gym fit guys who seem more into their muscles than the girl, and fatter guys who don't seem to appreciate just how lucky they are to be with the girl.

*Or you find a blistering hot girl and through her, work for everyone and impress them. Which was a key part of my break, though the girl only ever did two shoots, it got me properly started because I had already done the groundwork.

You missed out the 4th kind paul - average joe with a smile and a comdedy mouth.

There are many guys who I love to work with who fall into this categorie and to be weird one of my boyfriends favourite scenes of me is with an average joe and I think thats partly why he likes it. He is not threatened by what he sees me on screen with as the guy does not look like he lives in a gym, yet the guy has a charm and a good few comdey one liners that makes him likeable.

I also thinks these pairings can help with girls like myself who are 'girl next door looking' rather than plastic super model stunner, as it makes us look more attainable, and myfans have told me they like this mix. If average Joe can shag me through the power of his cheeky smile and good timing maybe they can - surly thats part of the point of pornogrpahy feeding the sexy dreams of othes.

I had that in mind when talking about character - after all you have pretty much described Jim Slip

you mean,like, rimming everone? !wink!

no sarah bad girl - how are doing chick have you managed to tear yourself away from your fuckng machine or has your electricity bill rocketed! xxx