Question re fisting,aimed at models and filmmakers
Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 10:36 pm
Author: Genie
I appreciate I have no right to be self righteous on this subject. (particularly following the link I posted the other day, but that was more out of astonishment).
My point of view is, and I appreciate I am but one person, and everyone has a different one...
I like pussy fisting. I appreciate not everyone else does.
I like seeing anal sex - as in 'normal' anal sex, with a dildo or penis going in.
Any more than that, I go queasy.
Perhaps I am being naive, but my view is that while pussy fisting is painful for some women and could be dangerous, it is the area designed, so to speak, to be stretched. I am not saying that means all women should fist, but just that is less unnatural than some might think. This is why I don't have a problem with say, Hayley Russell, being double [pussy] fisted. (I am happy for the moderator to delete name if that's inappropriate.)
Anal fisting is a different matter.
To put it crudely, with 'normal' anal sex a penis or a dildo, is not necessarily that much worse than the normal 'usage' the anus is subject to (I am no doctor, this is just layman's terms) and is of course a matter of choice. Again I appreciate that "normal" anal sex can be painful or dangerous too.
I also appreciate that many might suggest (although not so many on here) that what I call 'normal' anal sex is not normal sex, that anal sex itself is a perversion.
But anal fisting?
Why?
And why does this have any place outside the most bizarre of fetish films?
Is it as some suggested, in reply to the multiple pussy hands horror [the link I posted the other day], simply an effort to shock and outdo?
I accept ultimately the models who have done it might have enjoyed it, but I do suspect there was a bit of headline grabbing (in porn terms at least) or something like that involved in their decision.
Once more I have no right to moralise or dictate to girls and film companies I don't know, whose services that otherwise I enjoy and I pay for when I buy a film, and also create a demand for by being a customer, and also by even bringing up fisting as a subject, somehow create an interest or need...
However it has upset me to read about some models doing this...I would have been happy with them going to my normal 'extremes'...Not just because they are what *I* find acceptable...girls who have just gone into hardcore, isn't pussy fisting or anal sex enough?
I won't name names, and I repeat I cannot moralise.
I also accept it is ultimately about choice.
Also, I may be pissing in the wind...no-one else may give a f***.
However there are health risks though (I won't go into the horror stories I have read about prolonged performance of 'normal' anal sex, but you can follow the logic), so all I can say is girls going into hardcore, for your own sake, not my feelings, please think about what you do very carefully.
Apologies if I have ranted.
I hope the Moderator is ok with this post - if not please edit it, or at least ask me if I can edit it, as I feel strongly about this matter even if I have no right to expect it to change things.
I appreciate I have no right to be self righteous on this subject. (particularly following the link I posted the other day, but that was more out of astonishment).
My point of view is, and I appreciate I am but one person, and everyone has a different one...
I like pussy fisting. I appreciate not everyone else does.
I like seeing anal sex - as in 'normal' anal sex, with a dildo or penis going in.
Any more than that, I go queasy.
Perhaps I am being naive, but my view is that while pussy fisting is painful for some women and could be dangerous, it is the area designed, so to speak, to be stretched. I am not saying that means all women should fist, but just that is less unnatural than some might think. This is why I don't have a problem with say, Hayley Russell, being double [pussy] fisted. (I am happy for the moderator to delete name if that's inappropriate.)
Anal fisting is a different matter.
To put it crudely, with 'normal' anal sex a penis or a dildo, is not necessarily that much worse than the normal 'usage' the anus is subject to (I am no doctor, this is just layman's terms) and is of course a matter of choice. Again I appreciate that "normal" anal sex can be painful or dangerous too.
I also appreciate that many might suggest (although not so many on here) that what I call 'normal' anal sex is not normal sex, that anal sex itself is a perversion.
But anal fisting?
Why?
And why does this have any place outside the most bizarre of fetish films?
Is it as some suggested, in reply to the multiple pussy hands horror [the link I posted the other day], simply an effort to shock and outdo?
I accept ultimately the models who have done it might have enjoyed it, but I do suspect there was a bit of headline grabbing (in porn terms at least) or something like that involved in their decision.
Once more I have no right to moralise or dictate to girls and film companies I don't know, whose services that otherwise I enjoy and I pay for when I buy a film, and also create a demand for by being a customer, and also by even bringing up fisting as a subject, somehow create an interest or need...
However it has upset me to read about some models doing this...I would have been happy with them going to my normal 'extremes'...Not just because they are what *I* find acceptable...girls who have just gone into hardcore, isn't pussy fisting or anal sex enough?
I won't name names, and I repeat I cannot moralise.
I also accept it is ultimately about choice.
Also, I may be pissing in the wind...no-one else may give a f***.
However there are health risks though (I won't go into the horror stories I have read about prolonged performance of 'normal' anal sex, but you can follow the logic), so all I can say is girls going into hardcore, for your own sake, not my feelings, please think about what you do very carefully.
Apologies if I have ranted.
I hope the Moderator is ok with this post - if not please edit it, or at least ask me if I can edit it, as I feel strongly about this matter even if I have no right to expect it to change things.