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Question re fisting,aimed at models and filmmakers

Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 10:36 pm
by Genie
Author: Genie

I appreciate I have no right to be self righteous on this subject. (particularly following the link I posted the other day, but that was more out of astonishment).

My point of view is, and I appreciate I am but one person, and everyone has a different one...

I like pussy fisting. I appreciate not everyone else does.

I like seeing anal sex - as in 'normal' anal sex, with a dildo or penis going in.

Any more than that, I go queasy.

Perhaps I am being naive, but my view is that while pussy fisting is painful for some women and could be dangerous, it is the area designed, so to speak, to be stretched. I am not saying that means all women should fist, but just that is less unnatural than some might think. This is why I don't have a problem with say, Hayley Russell, being double [pussy] fisted. (I am happy for the moderator to delete name if that's inappropriate.)

Anal fisting is a different matter.

To put it crudely, with 'normal' anal sex a penis or a dildo, is not necessarily that much worse than the normal 'usage' the anus is subject to (I am no doctor, this is just layman's terms) and is of course a matter of choice. Again I appreciate that "normal" anal sex can be painful or dangerous too.

I also appreciate that many might suggest (although not so many on here) that what I call 'normal' anal sex is not normal sex, that anal sex itself is a perversion.

But anal fisting?

Why?

And why does this have any place outside the most bizarre of fetish films?

Is it as some suggested, in reply to the multiple pussy hands horror [the link I posted the other day], simply an effort to shock and outdo?

I accept ultimately the models who have done it might have enjoyed it, but I do suspect there was a bit of headline grabbing (in porn terms at least) or something like that involved in their decision.

Once more I have no right to moralise or dictate to girls and film companies I don't know, whose services that otherwise I enjoy and I pay for when I buy a film, and also create a demand for by being a customer, and also by even bringing up fisting as a subject, somehow create an interest or need...

However it has upset me to read about some models doing this...I would have been happy with them going to my normal 'extremes'...Not just because they are what *I* find acceptable...girls who have just gone into hardcore, isn't pussy fisting or anal sex enough?

I won't name names, and I repeat I cannot moralise.

I also accept it is ultimately about choice.

Also, I may be pissing in the wind...no-one else may give a f***.

However there are health risks though (I won't go into the horror stories I have read about prolonged performance of 'normal' anal sex, but you can follow the logic), so all I can say is girls going into hardcore, for your own sake, not my feelings, please think about what you do very carefully.


Apologies if I have ranted.

I hope the Moderator is ok with this post - if not please edit it, or at least ask me if I can edit it, as I feel strongly about this matter even if I have no right to expect it to change things.

Re: Question re fisting,aimed at models and filmmakers

Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 11:08 pm
by Genie
One more thing, while I don't withdraw my whinge, part of it was because I thought a softcore model I like had gone and done this. Turned out it was confusion over the names...so I've calmed down a little now.

However just because a model I like didn't do it after all, doesn't make me less concerned about the act itself though!

Re: Question re fisting,aimed at models and filmmakers

Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 6:31 am
by Tequila_Woods
Personally, i dont do any kind of fisting....too much pain for me. If girls are ok doing pussy fisting or anal fisting then thats fine by me too...at the end of the day the girls know whats going to happen in a scene and if they dont want to do it they dont do it...Simple as that really

Re: Question re fisting,aimed at models and filmmakers

Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 6:22 pm
by Genie
"at the end of the day the girls know whats going to happen in a scene and if they dont want to do it they dont do it...Simple as that really"

Yes and no, and again I appreciate I cannot tell anyone what to think, you included Tequila!

My concern is what happens in the scene, and what could happen later / long term are two different things...(ie the 'horror stories' I hinted at).

What concerns me is do girls feel compelled (note feel as opposed to forced) to go beyond normal limits, and then to live up to those limits?

Again their choice, but I think any girl who tried anal fisting regularly should probably take medical advice - if they have to do it, probably worth checking on exercises to ensure they don't do any damage there.

Enough hinting...I've read about girls shitting themselves after anal sex just the once.

Probably not a common occurrence, but...

Re: Question re fisting,aimed at models and filmmakers

Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 12:12 am
by fayerampton
yo
i dont do fisting pussy or anal only because i physically cant !!! just wont fit and is far too painful !!! but if i could do it i probably would !!!
i tend to find most girls that can do fisting have had kids
faye xxx

Re: Question re fisting,aimed at models and filmmakers

Posted: Fri Mar 11, 2005 8:53 pm
by Genie
Does that mean the ones that do anal fisting had kids from...

No that's disgusting!

:)