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Re: How easy it for pornstars to have relationships

Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 3:59 pm
by MegaTon
Your answer will probably be ' None of your business ' to most of those questions!

Re: How easy it for pornstars to have relationships

Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 5:13 pm
by Jonone
The way I see it is that the men and women differentiate between sex within an emotionally committed relationship and the sex that they perform onscreen which from which they're mentally detached. It's just sex! Where the acting and performance comes in is to make it appear that they're not detached and that they're 'into it'.

Commitment and trust are fundamental to any relationship, and it's a mistake to assume that the sex would be problematic .. maybe it is, maybe it isn't, but that's down to individuals. Perhaps people in the adult industry go out with one another because there is a greater shared understanding of some of the potential complications, or maybe it's just because of contact - this is the cicle in which they move in the same way that if you're a solicitor or a doctor it's quite likely you'll be involved with someone in the legal or health professions.

As for the other stuff, I wouldn't know. It's possible to live fairly anonymously in large metropolitan cities so exposure isn't inevitable, but I would imagine that most performers with children are sensitive .. they're just people after all.

Re: How easy it for pornstars to have relationships

Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 5:48 pm
by Gaslight
"they're just people after all"

As obvious as this statement is, i genuinely feel that a large percentage of the public refuse to accept this fact. I say refuse because I think it is a deliberate decision to pigeon hole adult performers as "a different breed" thus distancing themselves from such behaviour, while happily "spanking the monkey" to their work.

My own personal experience is that the people involved in this industry are some of the most level headed, genuine and honest people you could wish to meet. It is a pity that the general public is programmed to believe otherwise.