Don't you wish?
Posted: Fri Aug 19, 2005 6:02 am
Five times a day - no way
FRIDAY , 19 AUGUST 2005 The Dominion Post
By SOPHIE NEVILLE
A cactus and succulent expert allegedly poisoned by his Malaysian fiancee to slow his sex drive is upset by reports that he demanded sex from her up to 35 times a week.
Nursery owner Martin Walker, 53, said yesterday that his sexual expectations were not unreasonable and he was hurt by the claims. "It made me look like an animal."
Mee Kwan Ng appeared in Auckland District Court this week charged with poisoning with intent to cause grievous bodily harm. The charge was withdrawn and replaced with intent to cause inconvenience. Ms Ng, 41, walked free after two justices of the peace decided there was not enough evidence.
According to police, she spiked his drinks several times and put crushed antihistamine, anti- inflammatory medicines and pet repellent in his meal.
When spoken to by police, she admitted she had done it to "slow him down". In reports from the court proceedings, it was alleged that Mr Walker subjected her to sex up to 35 times a week.
Mr Walker said that was "a gross exaggeration" and he was devastated that he had been painted in a bad light. He did not believe his sexual appetite was unusually large. He had become frustrated in his relationship with Ms Ng ? whom he described as very attractive ? about the "steadily decreasing frequency of sex" and was worried about entering into a marriage with her on those grounds.
"I was concerned that our sexual and romantic life was on a fast-descending curve."
His former partner was confident and had regularly stood up for herself in all aspects of daily life. He had not subjected her to "unreasonable sexual expectations", he said. "I did not think that twice a day was unreasonable in a new relationship." He said he had never wanted her to be prosecuted and was sorry she had had to go through the court process. Police became involved only after he sought a trespass order against her because he was concerned for his safety.
After he gave the suspected poisoning as the reason for the trespass order, Ms Ng was arrested and charged. "I pleaded with them not to arrest her. I didn't want that, I just wanted her out of the house because I didn't trust her any more." He said he had loved her and was devastated by the collapse of the relationship. The two had been together for almost a year. They were introduced by a mutual friend early last year and communicated by e-mail before meeting several months later. They became engaged, and Ms Ng shifted to Auckland from Kuala Lumpur in October.
Mart
FRIDAY , 19 AUGUST 2005 The Dominion Post
By SOPHIE NEVILLE
A cactus and succulent expert allegedly poisoned by his Malaysian fiancee to slow his sex drive is upset by reports that he demanded sex from her up to 35 times a week.
Nursery owner Martin Walker, 53, said yesterday that his sexual expectations were not unreasonable and he was hurt by the claims. "It made me look like an animal."
Mee Kwan Ng appeared in Auckland District Court this week charged with poisoning with intent to cause grievous bodily harm. The charge was withdrawn and replaced with intent to cause inconvenience. Ms Ng, 41, walked free after two justices of the peace decided there was not enough evidence.
According to police, she spiked his drinks several times and put crushed antihistamine, anti- inflammatory medicines and pet repellent in his meal.
When spoken to by police, she admitted she had done it to "slow him down". In reports from the court proceedings, it was alleged that Mr Walker subjected her to sex up to 35 times a week.
Mr Walker said that was "a gross exaggeration" and he was devastated that he had been painted in a bad light. He did not believe his sexual appetite was unusually large. He had become frustrated in his relationship with Ms Ng ? whom he described as very attractive ? about the "steadily decreasing frequency of sex" and was worried about entering into a marriage with her on those grounds.
"I was concerned that our sexual and romantic life was on a fast-descending curve."
His former partner was confident and had regularly stood up for herself in all aspects of daily life. He had not subjected her to "unreasonable sexual expectations", he said. "I did not think that twice a day was unreasonable in a new relationship." He said he had never wanted her to be prosecuted and was sorry she had had to go through the court process. Police became involved only after he sought a trespass order against her because he was concerned for his safety.
After he gave the suspected poisoning as the reason for the trespass order, Ms Ng was arrested and charged. "I pleaded with them not to arrest her. I didn't want that, I just wanted her out of the house because I didn't trust her any more." He said he had loved her and was devastated by the collapse of the relationship. The two had been together for almost a year. They were introduced by a mutual friend early last year and communicated by e-mail before meeting several months later. They became engaged, and Ms Ng shifted to Auckland from Kuala Lumpur in October.
Mart