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Last nite I was chatting with a mate about the pros and cons of being a porn star. Pro's fairly obvious..i.e lots of sex..lots of beutiful girls, lots of beautiful girls having sex , lots of beautiful girls having sex in front of a camera, lots of beautiful girls having sex in front of a camera with YOU, and finally to cop it all off you get a paypacket for doing exactely what most guys think of 23.9 hours a day...rumping top notch totty!

as for cons?..well sod the cons..I mean have you read the pros?

But seriously though my mate did make a good comment as to why he personally would never consider getting involved and going for it on screen. Basically he didnt want his son to come home from school in 15 years time with a wank mag featuring his father . It's the sort of thing that you just cant explain!

I had to admit the b***d had a point (he always has to throw an untimely spanner into the works..just as I was begining to enjoy my little pornstar fantasy as well

I mean do not get me wrong, I'd still love to do the job and if by some stroke of luck I ever got a chance to become the british dirk diggler I would take it like a shot. But now further to his thoughtless comments, I have this reoccuring vision of my adolescent kids siting down at the computer in the year 2016, typing in daddys name on a search engine and getting back thousands of images of dear old pops filling his boots, performing the butthole boogie, showering in lady p*ss and generally indulging in all sorts of debauched going-ons and saucy shenanigans! I mean how on earth would you explain that to young junior? got me flummoxed.....

apologies for my attrocious spelling by the way..im dyslex and also far too lazy to run a spell check..not that Im making exuses of course....

I suppose it would depend on how upfront you were with your kids about sex: if you'd said outright that you had 'dabbled' it would spike any subsequent 'revelations'. Most kids are embarrassed by their parents' anyway, so it's a no-win situation.
Brit hypocrisy might make the situation harder for a mother than a father to have had a 'past'.
Do what you like: if your kids don't understand, that's tough shit for them.

Here we are in the 21st century. We have come so far in our achievements but sex...sex is still a major hang up for us poor people on this planet. We still consider it dirty, immoral etc. Richie dear boy, I hope in 15 years time, your son will be a little more pre-occupied with other things than concerning himself about Dad being a porn star. Better to be found shagging hot looking ladies than have a boring conservative wife...Who knows, if you bring your son up right he might hail you as a hero...And how do you know if you are going to have a son eh?

If (notional) kids found out I was a murderer or a thief or a politician then I might feel guilty - its time we ALL stopped seeing sex as a bad thing. Without it none of us would be here and neither would any kids we have!

I remember my dad (although it was probably my mum)finding my escort/fiesta etc under my matress, and dad having "a man to boy conversation" with me about "getting girls into trouble".
I felt so ashamed and thought dad was angry (when really he was thinking "yipee, the boys not gay").

In 2014 I guess the man to boy with my son will not be about getting a girl pregnant, but more about not catching AIDS or some other new disease, then logging on to this site to find it's him, not me in the porn film.

Basically you are saying you would be ashamed of it. If so, that is a good reason in itself and never mind the boy. If not, why would you have a problem explaining it?

Rich. You answerd your own question in the first paragragh. When junior asks how, or why, you got into porn, you just say...

lots of
> sex..lots of beutiful girls, lots of beautiful girls having
> sex , lots of beautiful girls having sex in front of a
> camera, lots of beautiful girls having sex in front of a
> camera with YOU, and finally to cop it all off you get a
> paypacket for doing exactely what most guys think of 23.9
> hours a day...rumping top notch totty!

What other explanation does it require than that?

Dibble.

fevrd, the post was written in jest.

Yes indeed I was ashamed at the time, but as a grown up I now know I had no reason to be.

As far as my son is concerned I was simply pointing out that at the time when I was 14, AIDS was virtually unknown, the worst thing a dad would worry about was his son getting a 14 year old girl pregnant (I come from a catholic background). Today in a society living with STD's such as AIDS and I fully intend to educate him better when he is older than my father did me, taking into account both morality and health issues and the fact that there is nothing to be ashamed of.

In the meantime i'm going to worry more about him crossing the road.

ahh dibble your spot on ..spot on!