My Small Breasts and I (BBC3)
Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 9:30 am
My views before hand:
I like small breasts on women, they're cute and very sexy.
I'm not a fan of breast enlargement as the results, too often in my opinion, appear misshapen and out of proportion. That's just my view so as not to colour this, hopefully, unbiased review.
Did anyone see this show earlier this week on BBC3?
Three UK women (mid twenties), different backgrounds, and with A cup bra sizes, try to find ways (for the benefit of the camera) to overcome their hangups about their small boobs.
Fascinating to watch and with a happy ending!
I forget their names, but they were all very candid about talking about it, though being very unhappy about their chest size, only one was prepared to show the camera, even then her nipples were - rather oddly - blurred out!
Girl A, of chinese origin, was trying a pump, to be attached 11 hours a day for 6 months!!! It seemed to work slightly although there was little evidence to suggest they'd stay that way, and may sag. The difference was very small, but she was happy with it. They were a tad mishappen and the skin was red around her boobs as a result, but this seemed like a minor inconvenience to her even though she was fine how she was.
Girl B, who resembled Scarlett Johansen, was desperate for a boob job and had signed up to a website where men donate cash in the hope of getting pics of her after the operation as a reward - a tad twisted, perhaps, but she saw it as a win/win situation. She witnesses a friend having the operation and it essentially puts her off the idea. The friend who had the op seemed pleased now that her breasts were bigger and mishapen, although, to be fair, it was very soon after the op and they hadn't settled. Girl B now seems happier with her image without any op or therapy.
Girl C was a mother of 2 who couldn't even leave the house as she was so sure people were staring at her, thinking "ew, what small boobs." After a day trip with her mum to by underwear where she starts to cry as they whole experience is too much for her, she finally plucks up the courage and goes to New York and has some very tasteful topless photos (at her discretion) taken by a female 'photo therapist' who puts confidence back into her models by showing them how beautiful they are, AS they are.
All these girls seemed to be very mixed up about their image and seemed to blame their boobs. One wonders if they had C cups if they'd blame their noses. Or if they had FF cups, they'd complain they were too large? The teasing at school in one case obviously had an impact, but it's interesting that some women have A cups and ARE NOT bothered the same way. It was amazing to watch as, in all honesty, these three girls were extremely beautiful and SHOULD have had had no issues whatsoever. Kate Moss was mentioned as an example, but she was brushed off with 'yeah but she's beautiful'. As were these girls, but they couldn't see it. It was interesting that, at least on camera, none of these girls had considered putting on weight as a way of enlarging their breasts. I know this isn't a perfect cure, but I've known women who's boobs change size with their weight. These girls, none of them under a size 10, even thought of that.
I suppose this thread is me trying to point out the obvious fact that some girls are preparred to enlarge their breasts purely because they see themselves as 'just flat chested' when they are otherwise perfectly attractive and that it's all stemming from the fact many women simply can't see the good in their appearence (how often have you heard a stunning girl say she was too fat, and there's no convincing her otherwise?). These girls didn't need boobs jobs, they needed confindence boosting. The boyfriend of Girl A, liked her boobs as they were but through the pumping process, it was suggested they couldn't have sex for 6 months! At one point they have a huge row, which isn't surprising, no sex, obsessing with breast pumping, camera crew in your face! But how do you convince someone who's got it so drummed in to her head that it's her boobs and not her confidence that needs enlarging?
This is my plea.
I understand some girls may simply WANT breast enlargements, that's fair enough.
I understand some want them to boost their careers in modelling or porn, again fair enough.
But if it's being done, purely to boost your confidence, to make yourself feel more attractive, please, PLEASE consider this one little fact before you do.
Some men really LIKE small breasted women the way they are.
With small breasts.
I like small breasts on women, they're cute and very sexy.
I'm not a fan of breast enlargement as the results, too often in my opinion, appear misshapen and out of proportion. That's just my view so as not to colour this, hopefully, unbiased review.
Did anyone see this show earlier this week on BBC3?
Three UK women (mid twenties), different backgrounds, and with A cup bra sizes, try to find ways (for the benefit of the camera) to overcome their hangups about their small boobs.
Fascinating to watch and with a happy ending!
I forget their names, but they were all very candid about talking about it, though being very unhappy about their chest size, only one was prepared to show the camera, even then her nipples were - rather oddly - blurred out!
Girl A, of chinese origin, was trying a pump, to be attached 11 hours a day for 6 months!!! It seemed to work slightly although there was little evidence to suggest they'd stay that way, and may sag. The difference was very small, but she was happy with it. They were a tad mishappen and the skin was red around her boobs as a result, but this seemed like a minor inconvenience to her even though she was fine how she was.
Girl B, who resembled Scarlett Johansen, was desperate for a boob job and had signed up to a website where men donate cash in the hope of getting pics of her after the operation as a reward - a tad twisted, perhaps, but she saw it as a win/win situation. She witnesses a friend having the operation and it essentially puts her off the idea. The friend who had the op seemed pleased now that her breasts were bigger and mishapen, although, to be fair, it was very soon after the op and they hadn't settled. Girl B now seems happier with her image without any op or therapy.
Girl C was a mother of 2 who couldn't even leave the house as she was so sure people were staring at her, thinking "ew, what small boobs." After a day trip with her mum to by underwear where she starts to cry as they whole experience is too much for her, she finally plucks up the courage and goes to New York and has some very tasteful topless photos (at her discretion) taken by a female 'photo therapist' who puts confidence back into her models by showing them how beautiful they are, AS they are.
All these girls seemed to be very mixed up about their image and seemed to blame their boobs. One wonders if they had C cups if they'd blame their noses. Or if they had FF cups, they'd complain they were too large? The teasing at school in one case obviously had an impact, but it's interesting that some women have A cups and ARE NOT bothered the same way. It was amazing to watch as, in all honesty, these three girls were extremely beautiful and SHOULD have had had no issues whatsoever. Kate Moss was mentioned as an example, but she was brushed off with 'yeah but she's beautiful'. As were these girls, but they couldn't see it. It was interesting that, at least on camera, none of these girls had considered putting on weight as a way of enlarging their breasts. I know this isn't a perfect cure, but I've known women who's boobs change size with their weight. These girls, none of them under a size 10, even thought of that.
I suppose this thread is me trying to point out the obvious fact that some girls are preparred to enlarge their breasts purely because they see themselves as 'just flat chested' when they are otherwise perfectly attractive and that it's all stemming from the fact many women simply can't see the good in their appearence (how often have you heard a stunning girl say she was too fat, and there's no convincing her otherwise?). These girls didn't need boobs jobs, they needed confindence boosting. The boyfriend of Girl A, liked her boobs as they were but through the pumping process, it was suggested they couldn't have sex for 6 months! At one point they have a huge row, which isn't surprising, no sex, obsessing with breast pumping, camera crew in your face! But how do you convince someone who's got it so drummed in to her head that it's her boobs and not her confidence that needs enlarging?
This is my plea.
I understand some girls may simply WANT breast enlargements, that's fair enough.
I understand some want them to boost their careers in modelling or porn, again fair enough.
But if it's being done, purely to boost your confidence, to make yourself feel more attractive, please, PLEASE consider this one little fact before you do.
Some men really LIKE small breasted women the way they are.
With small breasts.