Re: Am I Wrong?
Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 9:31 am
Randy, re-read the post. The operative term is '.. what might appear ..'. In context this is '.. what might appear to be a campaign ..' which is very different from stating that you are leading such a campaign. It's about perception and the fact that it might appear to the onlooker that that's what is happening, even though this isn't your intention.
You've aired your feelings and without Admin making a decision to draw a line under things all that would happen is that people find different ways to say the same thing and the whole thing becomes hostile and personalized. Not good !
Do you remember when Channel 4 ran the programme 'Right To Reply' ... well, both Lolly and yourself have exercised that right. The programme went out in a half hour slot, and all Admin have done is effectively decided that the half hour is up. If you feel that's unjust then you're entitled to your opinion, but appreciate that others might think differently.
Nobody needs to be right or wrong in this, or to be seen to be right or wrong. No-one has to have the last word. You can express your grievance (which you've done), see what the response to that is .... and then simply agree to disagree if need be.
You've aired your feelings and without Admin making a decision to draw a line under things all that would happen is that people find different ways to say the same thing and the whole thing becomes hostile and personalized. Not good !
Do you remember when Channel 4 ran the programme 'Right To Reply' ... well, both Lolly and yourself have exercised that right. The programme went out in a half hour slot, and all Admin have done is effectively decided that the half hour is up. If you feel that's unjust then you're entitled to your opinion, but appreciate that others might think differently.
Nobody needs to be right or wrong in this, or to be seen to be right or wrong. No-one has to have the last word. You can express your grievance (which you've done), see what the response to that is .... and then simply agree to disagree if need be.