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Hi

About 18 months ago I had a series of email communications with someone who originally wanted to book me for a photo-shoot in the Reading/Maidenhead area .. after a long string of emails at that time when he procrastinated about the shoot (thankfully).. and then wanted to 'protect me' and then gave me the usual sympathy vote about his mother/father just dying or some terminal disease he had just been diagnosed with then his emails turned nasty, controlling and agressive.. demanding that I put his type of pics on my websites and blog.. and then the emails were flooding into my in-box at one every half hour it was then I stopped responding & realised this 'bloke' was someone who is best described as a 'nutter'..

Obviously I can't name him on here. I named him and his emails on UKAP but give a warning that the same person is back again either after a spell of absence.. (detention in an isntitution somehwere?!!!)

I don't want to make light of it or just say it's me giving one person a hard time.. If you look back about 12-15 months ago in these forums then this same person then turned his unwanted attentions to either Kaz B (or katie K?) and they quickly came to the same opinion of his mental state!

Do stay safe, avoid this person. Read the thread on UKAP or email me if you wish to know more

thanks!
Sally x

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Luckily for you he procrastinated over booking you and then couldnt help but revert to type.... Unfortunately,when looking as Hot as you do in your main profile piccy(Phwoarrrrr!!thumbsup!) your bound to attract them!wink! Any girls booking work with unknowns around the Reading/Maidenhead area should certainly pay attention and do their homework .... x

Hmm.. a difficult one this.

You could report him to the police and hopefully if other girls do the same then the police will act but the porblem is the other girls never come forward.

A couple years ago I was getting racist death threats from a dick head that also posted here but he didnt reckon on me actually finding his address and going round there to pay him a visit and he soon changed his tune and turned it around to make it look like he was the victim. I was advised by a mate me to report it to the police.

Meanwhile he was also making personal death threats to other models that post here and blokes too but no one wanted to report it. So left unchecked this guy felt he could get away with abusing people for his own amusement.

I made a formal complaint and told the officers if they didnt do anyhting about it I would go round there personally and take matters into my own hands then blame them for not doing anyhting about it which they wanted to know how I got his name and address and did make a formal visit to him and interviewed him.

I was even ready to press charges but he fessed up and got cautioned.

Not its quietville.

Thats how you do it. Make these guys realise they cannot hide behind anonymous names on the internet and that their actions do have consequences.

It must have been kaz b because this person who you're taking about just emailed me and I am now very upset because I have been brought into something that has nothing to do with me.

I know it's not your fault sally, but the guy has taken "or maybe katie k I'm not sure" as "actually katie k". Wish he would read before upsetting people!

Katie

[quote]A couple years ago I was getting racist death threats from a dick head that also posted here but he didnt reckon on me actually finding his address and going round there to pay him a visit[/quote]

Haha, i would have loved to see his face as he opened the door, a Kodak moment for sure!

Keep hold of any future messages so you can show the police, if it gets that bad they can trace his ISP unless its mobile pay as go.
Because of criminal actions they can have their internet banned from the ISP address e.g. their home etc.

Thanks for all the replies and emails...

As for the individual in question ~ yes I have a collection of some of his worst emails in one of my saved folders called 'dickheads'. My approach with those like him is to set up their incoming emails to go straight to delete so you don't even know you've recieved their incoming rubbish.
Ignoring the ignorant is the way I get round it.

Thanks again for those who contacted me and did want to be made aware of someone who comes across as somewhat seriously disturbed

Sally

Wow i knew this sort of thing went on. Just didnt know it was more common than I had thought.

There must be a lot of angry blokes out there.

At least this discussing it will send the signal out to people to buck their ideas up and start behaving a bit more rsponsibly.

Once is ok and you could get let off but several different sources can only mean trouble

People who complain about such forums are the ones most likely to find themselves on it otherwise what would they have to fear if they are not guilty?

I'm a producer and I could easily find myself being talked about if I was out of line