There's no need for humble pie... Very few people here are webmasters and as I have over 100 sites I have had to learn the hard way myself... In the UK there are no adult hosts that I know about, though I don't know everyone.. So it's an odds on bet that any site with adult material will be US hosted as the costs over there are 50% of the EU.
I've also had to deal with hosts who basically told me to f**k off which is why I also DMCA the cc processor and the hosts upstream provider.. They don't like receiving the notice at all.
So... Sandie I'm glad I could help