How would you feel if.........

[Mike]

How would you feel if your girlfriend/wife came home and said she wanted to do hard-core porn.

By this full sex.

At this point, a bunch of blokes (who clearly have not got a girlfriend except for there right hand) will post "I would love it", "great, what a turn on".......

Now before you do, please think about this.

Your just Jo average (average job, nothing to look forward to, pretend your worth somthing as you drive each day in the dark to a job you hate....). Now how do you feel at night as you sleep next to her. You think of all she has been up to. You are never sure if she has court somthing.

Yopu watch her films, being turn all over, maby doing anal, and screaming her heard off. You see her doing things that you have not done with her. Men comming inside her vagina, ass, over her body. You see her suck of two blokes at the same time. You know that these who are having sex with her think she is a dirty slut and think nothing of her.

You go to family do's, now all your family know what she does. You know they tell each other that she is on the game and a filthy tart. Your briother is married to a teacher and your family is so proad of her. You just feel embarresed.

You go to your childrens school play. You can hear parents pointing towards you saying you know what his wife does.

Your children come home upset, after other children mock them.

Now how do you feel?

[Wink Wink]

If they are happy with their girlfriend/wife doing H/C then it's fine. I'm sure there are plenty of couples who have a stable relationship with the female taking part in porno movies, as long as they are open about what goes on.

If they are not happy then perhaps there is no point in having a relationship with that person, I guess it would only breed unhappiness.

I think it's a question of each to their own, people will make up their own minds about what route their personal life takes.

[jj]

You've deliberately set up about the most unlikely possible scenario.
If she's doing things in porn she's not done with her old man, their marriage is already in trouble: and how did the family find out? No sane couple with children would advertise the fact the wifey does porn, for the kids' sake, if nothing else (not a moral judgment, but a recognition of other people's stupid prejudices).
I talked over a rather more realistic, but broadly similar, possibility with a mate fairly recently: I concluded that twenty years ago I'd have been too insecure and self-absorbed to handle it, but now it probably wouldn't be that big a deal.

[CornishChris]

I would have thought that the Model/Actress would have fully discussed this with their parner before hand, and that rules and limits would be agreed and arranged.
However I am sure that having seen the final product of their loved one performing some people realise that it is all too much to emotionally handle and therefor it is mutually agreed that their porn career should end (explains why there are so many girls with only 1 or 2 films under their belts).

Im sure that 99.9% of models do what they do with their parners full blessing, and in fact the parner is proud and happy and gets off on that fact.

Just my 2 cents.

Cornish Chris