need help convincing girlfriend

[DonDada]

My girlfriends dead against any anal sex whatsoever. She's never done it before and is convinced it'll be the worst thing ever. How can i fix this travesty?

[DonDada]

i thought i was on the O/T board. sorry bout that...

[Ace]

Let her use a strap-on on you........if you don't want her too, then respect her wishes. Not all ladies like anal, if you feel anything for her, let it rest at that.

[marcusallen]

Ace is 100% correct.
"travesty"..............?

[Tequila_Woods]

Well done Ace...lol

[Marino]

A big fat line of cocaine and a large tequilla

[Guilbert]

The secret is to take it slowly and not make it the only thing she is
thinking about.

When I have sex with my partner we often take it in turns to play
with each other.

When it is her turn to be played with she lies on the bed, partly on
her side, with her backside exposed.

I play with her for 10 or 15 minutes, massaging her buttocks, her legs,
her breasts, I rub my prick over her arse cheeks, and between her legs.

I then rub baby oil on her arse cheeks and massage them. The baby
oil goes between her legs so I rub her cunt lips and sometimes slide
my fingers or prick in her fanny.

Now for the clever bit, while I am doing all this I make sure the baby
oil goes around her arse hole, and then while all this massaging is
going on I slip a finger in her arse. With all the massaging she hardly
notices.

I then use a vibrator on her fanny, and also I use a small vibrator on
her arse, which again she hardly notices.

While massaging her arse cheeks and fanny I also massage her arse
hole and gradually her arse widens and becomes more accessable. I
can then often put two fingers in.

I slide my prick between her arse cheeks, gradually putting it in her
arse. I take it carefully, and sometimes to be honest, she does not
want it and I respect that.

I find that if I take it slowly, make the arse massage part of the bigger
picture, then it just seems a normal thing to do.

After all this she turns on her back and I use my tongue and vibrator
to give her an orgasm. Often she has a first orgasm with one or two
fingers up her arse, then I move to her fanny and she has another one.

So it can be done, just dont blunder in and say right dear, bend over, I
am going to fuck your arse.

Guilbert

[one eyed jack]

Pay her...50 quid extra?

[DonDada]

lol... well i think the main problem is that she's dead convinced that it'll hurt like hell.... and doesn't listen to a word i say in defence...

And i can't say i agree with the strap on statement since there are other factors that complicate the matter, it's not a simple "i should be able to do this to you if you can do it to me", since it would be fucking with traditional gender roles that we already hold....she wouldn't want to fuck me with a strap on even if i insisted on it.

[Holden MacGroyn]

You old smoothy you.