Stalking..is it really so bad?
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pocketrocket
Re: Stalking..is it really so bad?
I used to work with the Spice Girls.. they had their own stalkers/obsessives.. what was weird was that that the ones for Sporty were a)both women b)weren't obvious social misfits.... one was a university student.. the other was the manager of a blockbuster video store somewhere.. very strange people though.. obviously not seeing the world through the same glasses as the rest of us.. would spend two days getting to a venue just to catch a glimpse of them in a blacked out merc.. very odd..would have thought that porn stars get more than their fair share of creeps though.. quite scary as they can't afford the same level of protection as the spices.. some of their minders were rather hard....
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Mephisto
Re: Stalking..is it really so bad?
Yes, it's obvious that stalkers are mentally ill, deficient, or inadequate and that they perceive reality rather differently from the norm - but, like peados, that's not to say they don't deserve a gloriously gratuitous kicking!
Mephisto.
Mephisto.
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Allan
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Hi
Just read a few (not all) of these posts.
Isaac Hunt says in a later post that he drove past his ex at night. It may seem to you Mr Isaac Hunt that what you did seemed harmless. Obviously I do not know why you split up and your relationship to your ex, but I think you should see it from her point.
I would not feel comfortable if someone was driving past my house looking in. It is not pletesent. Now if you are doing this often, it will be very disturbing for her. It is a form of harassment. You may think that you are not doing anything wrong, but it is not right for you to pester her.
I know that people who do stalk (and what you have stated clearly states you did stalk her) people do not think they are doing wrong, but, you must put yourself in the position of the other person. They will not like it, they will find it disturbing, they will be worried about what you are going to do next.
Please do not do it.
To those who have posted messages of beating stalkers, rapist, child molesters up, and so on, I also find those posts wrong. We live in a county (UK) that the law governs crime and punishes it. However you feel, you should not take the law into your own hands.
I could say that these posts are a bit off topic, but then, I am sure that some models do get stalked and if we can make people aware that this is wrong then it may stop it.
Allan
Just read a few (not all) of these posts.
Isaac Hunt says in a later post that he drove past his ex at night. It may seem to you Mr Isaac Hunt that what you did seemed harmless. Obviously I do not know why you split up and your relationship to your ex, but I think you should see it from her point.
I would not feel comfortable if someone was driving past my house looking in. It is not pletesent. Now if you are doing this often, it will be very disturbing for her. It is a form of harassment. You may think that you are not doing anything wrong, but it is not right for you to pester her.
I know that people who do stalk (and what you have stated clearly states you did stalk her) people do not think they are doing wrong, but, you must put yourself in the position of the other person. They will not like it, they will find it disturbing, they will be worried about what you are going to do next.
Please do not do it.
To those who have posted messages of beating stalkers, rapist, child molesters up, and so on, I also find those posts wrong. We live in a county (UK) that the law governs crime and punishes it. However you feel, you should not take the law into your own hands.
I could say that these posts are a bit off topic, but then, I am sure that some models do get stalked and if we can make people aware that this is wrong then it may stop it.
Allan
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Strand Webmaster
Re: These Posts
Your wrong alan....the laws is an ass. My wife and I reported the person who stalked her 3 times....They said unless he actually did anything there was not much they could do....I dealt with it in the end and have had no trouble since...So dont preach about the law until you have had something like this happen to you...and I hope you never do.
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marcusallen
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Sounds to me like you have been, at least, accused of Stalking.
Sure, it's hard to prove, which makes it easy for guys like you.
What is done is done and what is gone is gone. Get a life. You wanna drown yourself in misery, do it with scotch - not in your lonely life annoying a woman who obviously has no time whatsoever for you.
RE Allan's banal remark about let the law do it's own thing - forget it.
Nonces of whatever persuasion, under the prevailing atmosphere/laws of this country are coddled, kissed and considered "curable".
I personally would top them without a whim of conscience or regret. And contrary to popular opinion, I am actually a peace loving man. You see a cockroach in your house you stamp on it.
Sure, it's hard to prove, which makes it easy for guys like you.
What is done is done and what is gone is gone. Get a life. You wanna drown yourself in misery, do it with scotch - not in your lonely life annoying a woman who obviously has no time whatsoever for you.
RE Allan's banal remark about let the law do it's own thing - forget it.
Nonces of whatever persuasion, under the prevailing atmosphere/laws of this country are coddled, kissed and considered "curable".
I personally would top them without a whim of conscience or regret. And contrary to popular opinion, I am actually a peace loving man. You see a cockroach in your house you stamp on it.