anal

[y2k2me]

in movies girls do anal as if its the same as washing their hands. in real life though, girls find it both difficult and painful.
is their a magic formula to persuade a girl to try anal and overcome a natural inhibition to using a part of the body the wrong way? is their a way of removing not just the fear of pain but the pain itself? and also the idea it's just too dirty?

[Ace]

I read in FHM (So it must be true) a few months back this same question, and the reply was something like the US girls have some kind of injection that is a muscle relaxant to avoid any pain, and most of the US girls are high on cocaine whilst shooting. This would probably answer some of your querie, although NOT for one minute am I suggesting our British counter-parts are using these banned substances to enhance their work!!

[P.J]

I am sure that some girls love anal.Danni Kelson comes to my mind,always seems to be enjoying getting her asshole fucked.

[Ace]

Too true mate, I was only replying to the original post what I had read. Im sure some ladies love it, one US gal is Keli Richards, the original dp queen.

[deSade]

You need to try finding some more broadminded girls!

At least half the girlfriends I have been with have been fine with it and most genuinely enjoyed it.

I would even go so far as to say at least a third have been real anal addicts. The wife has no probs with it at all.

Try introducing the topic gently by getting her in a dirty mood and then using a finger....works for me!

[jj guesting at Bart's Hospital]

The girl's state of mind needs to be relaxed enough to overcome the biofeedback mechanisms that induce muscle contraction, same as for deep throat with the 'gag' reflex. Some girls cannot overcome their nervousness, and anal penetration will therefore be impossible.
Such relaxation can be achieved through drugs (legal or illegal), but trust is a cheaper and more reliable method. Lubricant also helps !!
As I understand it, a male will get stimulation from the pressure of the inserted penis upon the prostate, which is rich in nerve-endings, while a female will get her jollies from similar pressure against the rear wall of the vagina: although there are many fewer innervations in this case. So, the claims of Chloe Nicole and others to have 'anal orgasms' I would reject, although they may well be having vaginal orgasms as a result of the anal stimulation.

[zipper]

Well my g/friend suggests that "well when I first tried it hurt obviously because a it is getting used wrong and i tightened my arse up, but now i just relax and let it slide in"

She did not have anal sex for the first time with me but with my previous g/friends who have, they were as enthusiastic as I was about it.

I would never coerce someone who was not keen, or who thought it was disgusting, as you are definately onto a looser on that one.

The secret is gently does it to expand the muscles, plenty of lube and go with the flow, although the downside is getting a chocolate dick now and again, so wear a condom for all those healthy reasons; you know it makes sense.

Zipper

[mike johnson]

I am no expert in this area but this is the first I have heard of injections; the girls do routinely use enemas beforehand tho.As to the original post-keep in mind a lot of these girls are highly experienced before they ever get into porn;Ginger Lynn said she began doing anal w/ her b/f at age 15 as a means of birth-control. Also, in last summer's "Cosmo" sex survey of over 6000 young women, 41% said they had had anal sex.