Marrying a female pornstar?

[videokim]

I am married to a porn star & have been in a happy 12 year relationship with her, we have a life outside the industry with our family & friends so being a porn star or shop worker is no different when it comes to marriage.
Over the years we have met lots of Pro & Am stars who are lovely honest down to earth people who if were single i would advise my friends to marry any day.
If the lady in question does have 3 kids from different fathers its not strange in todays society, some people treat porn stars & other industry workers e.g. strippers, escorts as good time girls who are only fit for one thing & its only when they are capable of seeing through this they realise they are normal people who want love to.

John

[one eyed jack]

Dont take this the wrong way Max but I have to say you have forgotten the most important thing about girls you see doing porn and that is they are real people with real emotions and personalities and everything that mkes them not much different to the average girl in your area who would probabaly do porn (or just modelling in general) if they had the courage.

There is no reason why a former porn star shouldnt be able to show commitment as much as any other women might. In fact I find reality has more hypocrites in the form of cheaters than the porn industry does.

Mind you this lack of understanding runs both ways as many girls who do porn (maybe with the odd exception) dont like meeting fans because they think many of them are leery and grope you just because they think its ok for what you do for a living.

[Bicycle Bum]

I think if girls do hardcore porn, then it's unrealistic to expect a happy married life, especially if the guy is sexually less experienced. Maybe guys in the porn industry are the only ones pornstars can turn to when they want marriage, but how do you explain to the kids all those DPs and ATMs mommy did?

[one eyed jack]

The way the world is going Bicycle Bum it may seem a noble way to make a living given society is going downhill anyway.

Ok thats a bit cynical of me but given how many girls that are doing porn versus those who are on the periphery of it, it seems there will be a lot of women having to the same thing but in trith I know some older people in the adult industry and their kids know and they seem to be doing and behaving themselves a lot better than some of these other scally wags we read about roaming the streets.

It doesnt mean because the parents did porn that their kids will end up junkies and drop outs either.

Some of us are actually quite well adjusted mentally you know. Not all of course.

[videokim]

Your right Terry me & John have 4 kids between us aged 16 - 25, none of them have ever touched drugs or have police records. They all know what we do & don't love us any less for it. People think as a porn star/porn producer you live that life 24/7 but we are quite normal really, being in porn don't make you a money grabbing gold digger or a untrustworthy partner either as anyone can have these traits.
The stigma goes with the job but most of us can look through some peoples shallow thoughts because they don't live our lives so why would they try to even understand us.

Kim x

[Jonone]

Bicycle bum, there are many more morally reprehensible acts than ATMs and DPs etc If you were an arms dealer selling cluster bombs and landmines that kill children how might you explain that to your children ? Porn's consensual and relatively harmless .. hasn't someone like Euan Blair got more to contend with than an ATM ?

[belfast_birty]

Have just received update.Trouble in Paradise! Seems that the lady in question has a criminal record,in her own country.She's ''forgotten'' to mention this to my friend.

[hotmandy69]

Spill the goss Belfast_birty! Whats the crim record for and where is she from? x

[belfast_birty]

Seems that she has convictions for child cruelty,and is thus listed for life as a ''Scheduled Offender'' He's well off out of this relationship IMHO.

[Sarah Kelly]

So they have had enough discussions to get to the point of marrying!party!,yet none of these touched on the secrets / things you really ought to tell your partner about bit... Is hard to be objective without all the facts but, there are plenty of nice girls, in and out of porn,and without criminal records,who would love him to death Regardless of his age or the money,I would like to think.... x