Agony Aunt - any advise?

[Sarah Kelly]

Hi... mmm,interesing this - been there as the abused partner,(and it ISNT easy to move on/get out etc, even knowing you should)... Theres loads of things i could chip in with here but need know,unless im missing something, does she / did she ever ,fancy you?....x

[mrchapel]

No offense to the original poster but of course she doesn`t fancy him. He cares about her.

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Instead of being a nice guy perhaps you could try being a cunt, perhaps giving her the odd punch, shouting at her or just being generally abusive? Aparently women like that cause they keep going for guys who do it. Oh yeah and working and having your own money, car, or house is a big turn off too.
Or alternatively you could punch out now before you crash and burn and find someone who actually see`s you as more than a brother figure to clean up her emotional fuckups.

This agony aunt shits a doddle

[Sarah Kelly]

Er, perhaps a tad harsh but at least the fancying point is made/relevant.. if she doesnt fancy you bill, then you falling for her is just a mis match.. and you cant keep splitting her up from prtners cos you dont approve,unless you gonna try intro her to one she DOES fancy who will go on to love and cherish her, as you obviously hope to... Sorry but ,if she dont fancy you,its a dead end for you in that respect ... x PS could you (realy) JUST be a good mate to her ? x

[jj]

Does she what?

[jj]

one eyed jack wrote:
> yeah I think JJs nailed it before me
Praise from the praiseworthy, me old fruit : -)
Us old fuckas gotta stick togedder........ 'wisdom', it's fuckin'
pricey, eh?


> that is just how some women are...Big emotional engines.
We used to call them 'high-maintenance', yeah?


> Friendship has its own rewards as sometimes you
> might be even closer to her than any other man who has been
> inside of her.
That's what I hope Bill will find... and love can grow from that.
I KNOW.

[mrchapel]

What? I`m harsh for two good reasons. One the poor guys needs told how the truth is. This girl`ll just keep using him as an emotional crutch whilst he watches an asshole reap the rewards.
Secondly, I`ve been there. Nothing like being strung along in the friend zone to make you bitter, listening to how her boyfriend steals her money to get high and meh just get the fuck outta there man, no good`ll come from it

[jj]

Cruelly-put, but more or less acccurate.

[Sarah Kelly]

hard but fair- when i need to know summat , i know where to come eh! !wink!x

[jj]

Let's hope you never have to, eh?

[belfast_birty]

Well ,that's women for you!