Age & preferences

[marcusallen]

I sometimes wonder if age has anything to do with sexual preferences.
I am in my second childhood and have seen it, done, it and woven a T-shirt.However, I prefer my sex to be "normal" and actually have to like the girl I'm with.
But bearing in mind some of the requests we get about "Extremes", has it anything to do with your age?
Do younger men want the extreme?
Do older men want it because they have become bored with normal sex?

Re. the above, is it just the viewing you enjoy or actually practice these activities? (or would like to)!!

[one eyed jack]

Well Marcus, I look at it this way. I think people buy a video to see normal sex demonstrated with a bit more gusto than what they might do in their bedroom.

For instance, sex on a train is still normal sex but done in extra ordinary circumstances, therefore abit more exciting.

I have to agree all this extreme stuff is coming from competitors who are trying too hard but lets face it, its not everyones cup of tea which makes it still a niche market.

I don't have any problems with extreme sex acts per se but it depends if it is done in a context I can identify with. Just for the sake of it holds no substance for me and makes me think the producers are being cynical but then who am I to tell producers and patrons what to like? Its all subjective isn't it?

[myson]

Personally speaking I have no problem with a little bit of "excess" or the more "rampant" type of sex in porn vids but when I'm with a woman "privately" I much prefer the "gentle" approach.

I like to "make love" to a woman (I get as much pleasure from giving her pleasure as I do from the sex act itself).

Uh oh, I bet I've opened the flood gates now

Myson

[Lizard]

When your 18 you can shag all night, when your 40-75 you think you can shag all night. Not sure what you mean by extreme though Marcus, I guess if your extremes are within your physical limits given your age and condition, and a willing partner, as the ad say,s 'just do it' but sometimes the mind is willing etc.....Terry made the point about watching normal sex with a bit more gusto, thats the beauty of porn I guess.
Extremes such as watching double fisting dont interest me at all, but imagine you met a girl who really enjoyed that practice, would you learn to like it, or walk away?

Liz. (stumped)

[fevrd]

I like to have normal sex with a girl, although of course it's nice to give her a good hard caning first.

I'm not extreme though. I mean I wouldn't make her bleed or anything.

[Lizard]

How awfully civilised and considerate of you Fevrd..

[fevrd]

Civilised and considerate? You're confusing me, Lizard. I thought we were talking about fucking - RAW ANIMAL POUNDING OF A WET PUSSY!!!

I buy her chocolates and stuff you know, I'm not a peasant.

[Deadman]

I am 23 and have found lately that I have become more satisfied whilst watching a video that involves the extreme such as heavy bondage, watersports etc.

I find that that from experience of viewing, extreme is more intense as a whole where as the more mainstream, as well as being at a similar pace as the extreme, I find that it can become tedious.

In summary, as I am quite young, I find that although I lean to the extreme at the moment and still find mainstream alright, I say in my case the pacing and style of a production determines the turn on factor.

I have found that slow build ups i.e plot etc. arte a turn off while straight to the nitty gritty is more satisfying