Hiring an Escort for sex, Stigma or Socially Ok.

[Fan of Nudes]

Hello All

(Not Ford Escort)

As this Forum is a hot Bear pit of a cross section of people , all with different views. Would you please be so kind as to express your opinions of making an arrangement with a Escort for a "time of Adult Fun"
Guilty, or pleasure, or social outcast. Should know better, or sad Git?

I ask as I'm in two very strange line of thoughts.
1/ what the hell and if you enjoy what you see , and can afford to pay for it , Do It. Also some partners will not do certain things where as the Escort may subject to cost.
2/ Very dangerous game, if a future partner found they would question the actual relationship. Should sex just come down to paying a Escort for an evening out , and then sex?

Help please.
(any spelling mistakes, sorry)

[JonnyHungwell]

Not the sort of thing you brag about in normal company, as it is still generally regarded as sleazy. Although it's a fair wnough hobby, if you can find the ones who won't rip you off.

[Fan of Nudes]

But what is the differance between this and swingers. I have always found it hard to understand that a Husband is happy to allow a queue of fella's to shag the wife?

[Lucifer Sam]

aren't swingers a bunch of fat old women dressed in bondage gear? I saw a programme on channel 4 or 5 about them once. It was vile! Enough to put anyone off joining in!!

Escorts advertising sex, I suppose its down to yourself and your feelings towards paying for it. If you feel guilty or think its sleazy, then I wouldn't bother mate. It'll probably do your head in afterwards. Otherwise, like the man said, good luck in finding one who won't rip you off. You need to realise they aren't doing it for the same sexual fantasy your paying for. Its money and get it over with as soon as for them.

I'd stick to finding a girlfriend mate. You sound like you'd like to bite the apple but are terrified of anyone finding out. Pretty shaky ground if you ask me.

[Fan of Nudes]

Yea the ice is thin, and the mind twist would not be much fun. Though I'm trying to sort out various angles , pro's & con (no pun intended) Some how it is all connected to the adult business, so it the whole image of sex, ...Fun? pain? payment ? pleasure? exploitation , as well as the fantasy.... purely as a punter. Though keeping an open mind if possible... or just knock one alone....

Some swingers parties are fun, though some are big Girls too....

[Sam Slater]

Here's me only a week ago complimenting you on your grammar improvements, phototaker.

[one eyed jack]

I think if you see seeing escorts as sleazy that says something about you having issues with it.

Sure, most of us are taught to believe it is wrong and immoral but I be;lieve they are a positive healing than a negative one in society. That depends on the quality of escort that is.

A bad one is a good example of everything that is bad about it and a good one will make you feel that it is ok.

The double standards usually reflects a desire to use the services of an escort.

I say: Just do it!

If its your first time I suggest you go somewhere reputable but do your homework first, there are review sites...Just gogle it as I dont think I am allowed to mention them here or better still you might want to check oput my mate J Ks series "Real Punting" or go to his site and look there.

Whatever you do just dont go for the first pretty one you see. She might be a bad example of what you need.

[Mike_CFC]

Viewing an escorts field report can also be a good way of getting piece of mind of her attitude as a person,as well as an escort.

Not all escorts are money orientated slags.Some can even turn out to be a good friend.Respect for each other is the main factor.It works both ways.

Like OEJ said,just do it,but don't dive straight in with the first one you see.

[Robches]

I'd be happy to find one that looked just like Billie Piper.

[Marino]

Definitely OK in my books. I have had some wonderful escort experiences in the past.

A top night in.